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Do not pre-judge

July 16, 2020

By N.K.A. Ballal, Retd. Sr. Vice-President, ITDC

Lockdown with just 4-hour notice: Was it right or wrong? Many opinions. Only time will tell whether it was right or wrong. Why pre-judge our Prime Minister so early ? Why does he not name China? Why does he not wish Dalai Lama on his birthday? As a Prime Minister,  he has  to take lot of things into consideration before he utters a single word. Let us not pre-judge Mr. Modi. No country including China can afford a loss of face to their domestic constituents. War is not an option to any country and at the same time peace with honour is what every one wants. To this end, silence is sometimes golden. 

An old man was sitting in a train with his 30- year-old son.  The son was sitting opposite to him. It was a fully packed train with people of all ages, working men and  women,  old and young, some looking tired and lost too. Some were chatting, some were reading and some were lost in their cellphones playing games.  Suddenly the 30-year-old son of the old man started to speak out loud with lots of joy: “Dad, look at the hills far away, so interesting and wonderful to look at.” He went on and on describing each detail of the scenery loud.

In the beginning others in the coach found it amusing; this kind of childish behaviour from a grown  up. But the continuous chatter started to irritate them to no end. Some began to gossip on this behaviour and started commenting whether this 30- year-old was mad.

 It started to rain and a few rain drops fell on the man; he touched them and started to yell with happiness and said: “Dad, look at the rain drops. Don’t they look like diamonds?” After half- an-hour when the passengers in the coach could not tolerate it any more, one of the commuters went up to the old man and asked him: “Why don’t you ask your son to shut up. Control him,  he is irritating all others in the coach. Send him to  mental asylum  if you cannot control him.” 

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The old man with a sad smile  said: “Sir, my son was born blind. Last week my wife expired and before her death, she donated her eyes to her son. I am just returning from the Hospital and my son of 30 years is seeing this world for the first time. Everything — from the mountain to the trees, to the rain drops — is new to him and so the excitement. For him, this is a re-birth and he is seeing this world like a new-born.”

The whole compartment  suddenly fell silent realising how they had pre-judged a person and went on to make a comment on his behaviour without even trying to find out the reason for the same. Is it not true that we take so many things for granted?    So many functions of life like hearing, seeing, touching etc., are so precious but we assume that everyone has it. Only when one is deprived of this, one realises the value of the same. When we  see someone who does not have his basics, let us be grateful to God, empathise  with the situations and do whatever to make him or her comfortable rather than pre-judge them. Let us not jump to conclusions  and label them before we know the complete story.

We Indians generally  are very inquisitive  and nosey about others’ problems. You put on a sling and walk on the road and every one who accosts you will ask the reason for the sling and then give tons of advice too for curing it. One of my relative, a young girl, had come down from the US. She had a hearing disability and had put on a mini-hearing aid, not common in India those days. She got so upset with all people asking her the rate of that hearing aid and details of the piece ! 

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The recent suicide of Sushant Singh Rajput is a sad end of a promising actor. But one look at the social media, thousands of people blaming every sundry actor, producer or director without knowing any facts of his suicide.  Some are demanding a cbi enquiry too !

Lockdown with just 4-hour notice: Was it right or wrong? Many opinions. Only time will tell whether it was right or wrong. Why pre-judge our Prime Minister so early ? Why does he not name China? Why does he not wish Dalai Lama on his birthday? As a Prime Minister,  he has  to take lot of things into consideration before  he utters a single word.  Let us not pre-judge Mr. Modi. No country including China can afford a loss of face to their domestic constituents. War is not an option to any country and at the same time peace with honour is what every one wants. To this end, silence is sometimes golden. 

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4 COMMENTS ON THIS POST To “Do not pre-judge”

  1. Hey Covid-19 says:

    Hey Ballal
    Stick to what you know, that is hospitality industry, Hotels mostly and tourism in a way, even though in your articles you struggle to understand this, as you are mainly a Hotel expert!
    Your anecdote sbout the arm sling or hearing aid, which sound completely nonsensical and product of your creative imagination. In my experience of visiting Mysuru from the West , where Ihave lived for decades, Mysoreans are not that foolish, to stop and ask you, unless, there are close friends, in which case, it is an enquiry based , not on inquisitiveness , but concerns. In Bengaluru, where you saw strangers every where, every day, they were in a hurry to catch a bus or auto, and had no time to stop to enauire some one whose arm is in a sling or wearing a hearing aid. That was even in 1960s.
    Try better, and not dishing out these poppycock.
    Covid-19 is a pandemic, the like of which the world has not seen in decades, and lockdown is a new untried approach for all leaders in the West. Hence, Modi took precaution and studied what other countries were doing and could have done better, and introduced the lockdown. I have not heard any dissent why this lockdown was introduced that early.
    Ballal, best to comment on what you know. May be next time talk about the Ballal Hotel in Mysore, which prepared lousy masala dosa, and any one complained about it, the rude Ballal would stand up tall, and given that person a mouthful of expletives. He did the same, whneever any lecturer compalined about his brother, who never attended his class, and produced the work late and copied!

  2. Hello, hello! says:

    Ignore this Ballal person, who picks the suject to write , of which he has no idea!
    Except perhaps the dreaded Gandhis, who are just wastrels, and their deluded followers, people are not complaining about the lockdown introduced. Modi would have talked to CMs of states, and if there are any failures, they were due to these CMs, Modi cannot come down and inspect what the AIADMK leaders in Chennai are doing or what the Shivsena thugs in Maharashtra failed to do. These were local decisions.
    No worl d leader got it right. UK PM was criticised for being late in the lockdown, Merkel of Germany was criticised for being too cautious in not introducing complete lockdown etc.. etc..

  3. Hey Covid-19 says:

    Sorry some typos. Modi took advice from the experts, and the lockdown was introduced at a time, which was considered the right time.

  4. Syed Tanzeem says:

    Gentlemen Do not discuss on issues which are bygones. Let us move forward by regularly wearing masks, using sanitizer and washing hands regularly. We should educate people about this and see that carona is eradicated at the earliest

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