Child’s safety first, comforts and luxuries afterwards !
Voice of The Reader

Child’s safety first, comforts and luxuries afterwards !

July 2, 2019


With reference to the news item “Mandya DC urges parents not to buy bikes for students” (SOM dated June 29), I would like to share my views.

When my son was 6 or 7 years old, I had given him a cycle which he used till his first PUC. When he turned 16, I provided a non-geared vehicle – Luna – to him and only when he completed 18, I planned for the bike. It was never affordability but the practicability and all the time, I was urging him to follow traffic rules and regulations. Only after graduation, he could drive a four-wheeler. It is of utmost importance to make children understand and abide by the rules so as to avoid untoward incidents.

Many a times when I used to go for my morning walk, I saw minor boys riding two-wheelers. After stopping such boys and advising them about the dangers of underage driving, I used to take them to their houses and also advise their parents against such practice.

It is not important that they can drive but it is more important to know if they are matured enough to take reflex actions during unexpected situations.

I know very well that such exercises may not yield desired results, but indeed, it is the responsibility of parents to see that children get comforts or luxuries at the right time. Each and every parent must first think about the safety of the child and help him to grow with proper knowledge of law.

With regard to responsibilities of parents, I would like to add one more point of concern — use of mobile phones by children aged 2 to 16. Of late, many parents take pride about their child using the mobile phones. We need to appreciate and encourage our children, but how is a big question.

READ ALSO  Garbage woes near Hinkal apartment

Saint Kabir has rightly said that at the right time right things should take place. Till that right time comes, one should have patience and tolerance. For that, he teaches us to have patience and to elaborate for clarity, he gives the example of a gardener. According to Kabir, even if the gardener pours buckets of water to a tree, only during a specific season it will flower and bear fruits. We cannot expect anything in hurry.

Such basic values of importance are diminishing and we are seeing many unwanted incidents taking place in society. I strongly feel that there should be good counsellors to sensitise parents to understand their duties and responsibilities much before the birth of child. Precaution is always better than cure.

Appreciating the initiative taken by Mandya DC Manjushree, I would like to inform that many people like me are always ready to join hands for such cause if needed.

– Dr. Manik Bengeri, Saraswathipuram, 30.6.2019

You can also mail us your views, opinions, and stories to [email protected]

ONE COMMENT ON THIS POST To “Child’s safety first, comforts and luxuries afterwards !”

  1. Sir, I have some comments on Dr. Manik Bengeri’s observations. It is very kind of him to get involved in this issue. However, the youth are driven by an onslaught of testosterone during their mid-teens, and they do rash and violent acrobatics prompted by this. Someone needs to design a path to channelize their fervor and energy in such a manner that would come in helpful in building their careers, like sports, music or other extra-curicular activities. In most cases, parents are completely helpless in controlling their growing kids from rash-riding and/or frivolous use of their mobiles. Counseling the parents is not the solution. Providing an outlet for the testosterone that starts coursing through the veins of the kids in constructive ways is the solution. Thanks.


Mysuru’s favorite and largest circulated English evening daily has kept the citizens of Mysuru informed and entertained since 1978. Over the past 41 years, Star of Mysore has been the newspaper that Mysureans reach for every evening to know about the happenings in Mysuru city. The newspaper has feature rich articles and dedicated pages targeted at readers across the demographic spectrum of Mysuru city. With a readership of over 2,50,000 Star of Mysore has been the best connection between it’s readers and their leaders; between advertisers and customers; between Mysuru and Mysureans.


Academy News Papers Private Limited, Publishers, Star of Mysore & Mysuru Mithra, 15-C, Industrial ‘A’ Layout, Bannimantap, Mysuru-570015. Phone no. – 0821 249 6520

To advertise on Star of Mysore, email us at

Online Edition: [email protected]
Print Editon: [email protected]
For News/Press Release: [email protected]